I don’t know what’s gotten into me, but I’ve been a huge pile of happy lately. I’m just going to take the moment to share that since I know it’s not always the case. Gratitude and sharing happiness is the first step to getting more of that in your life, right? Even though I’ve been having a terribly hard time jumping into this new year with the same gusto of goals I’ve had in the past, there’s been something slowly brewing in my general attitude over the past month or so. I’ve been giving myself a break, I’ve been living in the moment, and I’ve been taking on new and exciting work that fulfills me creatively. Anyways, babble central over here. How are you guys?
This yearly transition, from the holidays into the new year has been different. In the past, I’d have had all these goals and reflections that would propel me towards change in the new year, but this year I’m just drawing a blank. And you know what? I’m ok with it. Is anyone else not getting into the crazy goal setting thing this year? At the same time, I’m so pumped for this year. I finally feel like I’m settling into this little life of mine, and it feels good. I’m excited to have the foundation down, and to grow into healthier habits and do some personal growth. I don’t have specifics on these, but I can feel that awesome things will be happening.
Oh, and I’ve been reading The Slight Edge — and it’s flipping my world upside down, in the greatest way. It’s amazing how a little positive decision making on even the simplest of things can change your perspective. Highly recommended for anyone with a go-getter spirit that’s feeling a little wishy-washy this January.
Now for a little recap on my 2014:
This was my year of settling in. I had big goals for myself to edit in all the areas of my life, and while some of that might have happened, I spent a lot of the year transitioning from ‘student’ Kelsey to ‘real life adult’ Kelsey. It was good. And bad. But mostly really great.
Good, because I met Todd, I got Eaton, and I took on new clients and projects at work that really helped me grow professionally. I opened my print shop, which I had in my back pocket for two years running. Bad, because I celebrated a lot of the good with eating and have packed on more than a couple happy pounds. Like, way more than a couple. I let my work take over my health, and when I don’t move my body I subsequently get pretty darn sad for no reason at all. Not good. This year was mostly great because overall, I think this has been the happiest year of my life. No huge life complications, great friendships made, and lots of new experiences. I could really feel myself growing into more of who I want to be, and that is always a great thing.
As traveling is always a priority in my life, here’s a list for my records:
• March — Omaha, NE to style and shoot photographs for The Object Enthusiast
• April — Dallas, TX for the Pursue workshop
• May — Findley Lake, NY for a family weekend with my mom’s cousin’s family and Todd
• July — Home, to Erie, PA for the 4th of July weekend
• July — Chicago, IL to visit my grandparents
• August — Toledo, OH for my very first German dancing event
• October — Danville, OH for a cabin weekend to celebrate Todd’s birthday
• November — Back to Omaha, NE but for a friend’s wedding
• November — Draper, SD for Thanksgiving at the farm
• December — Ft. Lauderdale, FL to meet Todd’s parents
See, so much great fun happening! Lots to be thankful for.
As I transition into this next year, I generally want to continue my trend towards mindfulness and general self-improvement. I want to keep practicing joy in the present moment, and making small positive decisions that will add up to a happy and well-lived life. There’s too much great to dwell in the negative, and I want to make decisions that reflect that mindset over the years to come.
Cheers to a happy and healthy 2015 everyone!